What you should know before going in
Things we should do but will never get around to before getting into a relationship:
First thing you might want to know is her sexual past. I’m not talking about the acceptable predetermined disclosed number of three that women are told to tell men when they are in the 2nd grade so as to not scare off a guy by the true number of 39. Sometimes the truth hurts but if you know how many men she has been with, you will not only be able to gauge your safety but her decision making ability, maturity, and dedication to commitment. This segues into issues of health. You should know beyond a shadow of a doubt her STD status before you even know her number. That’s never going to happen but in an ideal world in your mind. Think about it; you’re in a club and you run into sweet and sexy hot thang and she’s good to go. However, it’s not like she’s a red Corvette and you can run a Carfax check on her but damn it, wouldn’t it be nice if you could? No sex is worth dying for. No matter how fine or how good it feels. You wouldn’t sleep with a woman you know has A.I.D.S. even with a condom, no why would you ever sleep with a woman without a condom not knowing if she has A.I.D.S.. Few other things you might like to know is credit history. It might sound kind of shallow but would you mess with a woman who has filed for bankruptcy a few times and had things of hers repossessed if you knew about it going into the relationship? This screams of irresponsibility are a big warning sign that she needs you a whole lot more then you need her. Last but not least, do we have a jail bird on your hands? Might help to know if Bonnie got locked up for robbing a bank with her Clyde and whether he is getting out of jail soon and might not take too lightly to you watching the raiders game on his 80” TV with his lady on your lap. Just some food for thought dog, get a plate.
